Mastering The Meal Interview

1. MIND YOUR MANNERS
It may seem unnecessary to mention, but those basic table manners you were taught as a child still matter. In casual settings, poor manners are not always corrected. Therefore, you could have picked up some habits that your mother would be ashamed of and more likely than not, your interviewer probably will not be too be impressed by them either.

Here are just a few of the habits you should be mindful of during a meal interview: 

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• •   BE POLITE. In addition to evaluating your answers to questions, an interviewer is also
      assessing your personality. Be courteous and respectful to everyone,
      especially the wait staff. Words such as "please" and "thank you" speak worlds about
      your character.
• •   BE AWARE. Keeping you elbows on the table, chewing with your mouth open, talking
      with your mouth full all convey a negative impression. Pay attention to even
      your smallest actions.
• •   BE PREPARED. If you feel uncertain about your table manners, consult the experts.
      Emily Post's books on etiquette are considered to be among the
      definitive works on etiquette. There is no shame in doing research; after all, this is an
      interview.

2. THE DISH DILEMMA
Even though you are being treated to a nice meal, you are not free to order any dish you like. You are in an interview, and therefore, you have the duty of maintaining a certain level of professionalism and formality throughout the meal.

There are no definitive rules of food selection, and you may have to make a game-time decision. However, following these rules will help you steer clear of trouble:

• •   AVOID MESSES. Steer clear of foods that have to be eaten with your hands or have a
      tendency to splatter. It is hard to recover from the embarrassment of
      splashing your interviewer with spaghetti sauce, nor do you want to inadvertently adorn
      yourself with gravy or cream sauce. So stick to foods that can be cut into small pieces
      with a knife and fork.
• •   NO STENCHES. Avoid foods that have a strong or unpleasant order. You are better off
      having an interviewer not remember you at all rather than as the
      candidate with bad breath. So no matter how much you love onions and garlic, lay off
      the stinkers for one meal.
• •   KEEP IT QUIET. You need to be able to conduct a civil conversation. Avoid foods that are
      crunchy and noisy to eat. In a public setting there is a lot of noise that
      could drown out the voice of a person sitting across from you so try not to order food that
      would add to the problem.
• •   FOLLOW THE LEADER. You may be wondering if a menu item is priced too high or if to
      order an appetizer first, etc. The answer is to follow your interviewer's lead.
      Try to order food in the same price range as the interviewer and order the same number
      of courses. You do not want to be sitting idle while the recruiter is still eating.

3. CONSUME AND CONVERSE
You are at an interview and also dining out. This means you need to not only be talking, but also eating. It can sometimes be difficult to do both.

Try and keep these issues in mind when posed with the challenge of eating and talking at the same time:

• •   YOU ARE IN CONTROL. Don't feel so pressured to talk that you don't eat at all. This can
      be interpreted as nervousness.
• •   ASK QUESTIONS. When going to an interview, it is always a good idea to have
      questions. This will allow you get more information on the company and
      show that you have done your homework. During the meal interview, it
      will also give you the opportunity to actually eat as your interviewer responds to your
      questions.

4. FINISHING WITH A BANG
Unlike that of a standard interview, the end of a meal interview does not just end with a handshake and a "Thank You". There are other things to keep in mind including:

• •   DON'T OFFER TO PAY. It's never expected of a job candidate, and you don't need to do
      it.
• •   NEVER ASK FOR A DOGGY BAG. No matter how delicious the meal was, requesting to
      take a portion of it home is not appropriate for the setting.
• •   REAFFIRM YOUR INTEREST. Let the interviewer know how much you would like to work
      for his/her company.
• •   A "Thank You" AND HANDSHAKE CAN'T HURT. As in any interview, don't forget to thank
•     the interviewer for taking the time to meet with you. In addition, be sure to
•     be gracious and say that you enjoyed the meal and end the interview with a firm
•     handshake. Make sure to follow up with a thank you letter in the morning.